In the perfect world, your boyfriend will be supportive. But that is not always the case. Just remember to be honest about your feelings and ask him to be honest about his, too. Some boyfriends are happy when they find out about an unplanned pregnancy and some aren’t, some may have mixed feelings. Every person is different, and so is every situation.
If you used a pregnancy test to find out, you still need to make an appointment with a doctor so that you can get good prenatal care. Decide if you want your boyfriend to be with you when you talk with the doctor. He may appreciate being part of the process and be supportive throughout your pregnancy.
Suppose your boyfriend does not want to be part of you or your child’s life? That’s ok. You can do this. Whatever decision you make, it is your decision.
The soul you have conceived may have a strong tie to both of you or just one of you. ¹ Either way, they need you to bring them into the world so that they can balance their own karma and do what they need to do for the rest of the world. Souls know that they have friends—soul mates—they need to connect with for their mission, so being born at the right time to the right people is very important. ²
There are many organizations with caring people that will help you 24/7. Once your child is here, you can get help from your local community and financial support from the father.
